{"id":2688,"date":"2025-07-15T09:51:56","date_gmt":"2025-07-15T09:51:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/https:\/\/thatenyimbafan.blog\/azuka\/authentic\/?p=2688"},"modified":"2025-07-15T09:52:00","modified_gmt":"2025-07-15T09:52:00","slug":"what-if-she-never-returns-to-who-she-was","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thatenyimbafan.blog\/azuka\/authentic\/what-if-she-never-returns-to-who-she-was\/","title":{"rendered":"What If She Never Returns to Who She Was?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Good morning, Guys<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For those of us who live in a house with other humans, there is always that moment right before everyone else wakes up when you are all by yourself. Still, quiet, serene. A lot can happen in these moments. A prayer for the new day, planning the day\u2019s activities, or maybe just thinking about life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Today is one of those days. I have maybe an hour before my <em>yard people<\/em> wake up. 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Some internal disagreement involving the coaching crew, finances, and the caliber of players available means cowardly staying absent is the route the club has chosen. Perhaps Abia Warriors should have been invited instead. At least their governor ensures players are paid promptly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As I got wind of what transpired, a wave of concern swept through me. I thought about last season, our trip to Maiduguri, and the one against Black Bulls Maputo. The failed logistics, the rushed and unplanned exits, the dreadful travel conditions. And now I genuinely worry for the season ahead.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The silver lining is that the club now has a little more time to keep things running behind the scenes, pretending all is well while trying to quietly put out the fires burning in the background. But things will not magically fix themselves. 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